I’ve been married for 24 years. My wife and I love each other VERY much. She is the kindest and sweetest person I have ever met. The only glitch is that she is asexual. She is not averse to sex. She will take care of my “needs” whenever required. However, I know that taking care of my sexual desires is just a task to accomplish for her.
Beyond the snuggling aspect, she gets very little out of sex. I would like to relieve her of at least some of the obligation she feels to satisfy me sexually by finding other healthy outlets for my overly abundant sexual energy. I have avoided the traps that many men set themselves up for by never seeking outlets that would disrespect or dishonor my wife and will continue to do so. However, at times it feels like my sexual energy is eating holes through me.